Warm-up
5 minCulture and manners
Answer each question with 2–3 sentences.
- How close do you stand to people you don't know?
- How do you greet your friends? And your boss?
- Do you like being touched by people you have just met?
- Where do you feel uncomfortable in a crowd?
- Have you ever had an awkward moment in another country?
- What is rude in your culture, but normal in another?
Words and phrases
12 minNew words
Read each word and the example. Then say a sentence about customs.
Which word?
Choose the word that fits.
- The area around you that you want to keep free from others is your .
- A movement of the hands or head that has a meaning is called a .
- Saying hello, with words or a movement, is a .
- In business, the is a common way to say hello.
- When you don't know what to do or say, a situation can feel .
- It is to say please and thank you.
- Looking directly into someone's eyes is called .
- Saying that all people from a place are the same is a .
Opposites and pairs
Choose the right answer, then press Check answers.
- a gesture is a movement of the
- awkward = uncomfortable and
- polite = behaving in a
- a stereotype is a
- to bow = to bend the body
- to offend = to make someone feel
Useful phrases
Use these phrases to organise what you say.
- Actually,...Насправді,...Actually, people in my city stand quite close.
- In fact,...Фактично,...In fact, it depends on the person.
- On the other hand,...З іншого боку,...On the other hand, some people prefer more space.
- Generally speaking,...Загалом кажучи,...Generally speaking, people in cities stand closer.
- To be honest,...Чесно кажучи,...To be honest, I don't like crowded lifts.
- By the way,...До речі,...By the way, did you know that people bow in Japan?
- Anyway,...У будь-якому разі,...Anyway, let's go back to the topic.
- As far as I know,...Наскільки я знаю,...As far as I know, this depends on the region.
Read and react
8 minPersonal space
Read the text. Hover over the dotted words for help.
Do cultures stand at different distances?
In the 1960s, an American anthropologist, Edward T. Hall, wrote about what he called "proxemics", the study of how people use space. He described several zones: an intimate zone for close family and friends, a personal zone for conversation among friends, a social zone for meeting people we do not know well, and a public zone for speaking to a group.
Hall suggested that people in different cultures prefer different distances. Generally speaking, people in some regions, such as parts of Latin America and the Middle East, were described as standing closer, while people in some parts of northern Europe and East Asia were described as preferring more space. In fact, there is no exact number that is correct, and any rule is only a rough guide.
Later research has confirmed that culture can affect personal space, but it has also shown big differences between individuals. On the other hand, age, gender, the situation and even the weather can change what feels comfortable. For example, in a crowded train, nearly everyone accepts a smaller distance than in an empty room.
Anyway, the main lesson is to be careful with stereotypes. Instead of assuming that someone is rude, we can remember that their custom may be different. If you feel awkward, a smile or a small step back is usually enough.
By the way, in many cultures eye contact and the handshake also follow their own rules.
How close do you like to stand to a stranger?
True or false?
- Hall wrote about proxemics in the 1960s.
- Hall said there is one exact number for every culture.
- Individuals are different, even within one culture.
- The text says the situation has no influence.
- The text advises people to be careful with stereotypes.
What do you think?
- Why can personal space cause misunderstandings?
- How do you know if you have stood too close to someone?
- Is it fair to say "people from X are always..."?
- What helps people feel comfortable in a new culture?
Grammar for speaking
10 minGrammar for speaking
Discourse markers: adding, contrasting, correcting
Use markers to show how your ideas connect. In fact and actually add or correct a point. On the other hand and however show a contrast. Besides and what's more add an idea. Put a comma after most markers.
Actually, people in my city stand quite close. In fact, it depends on the person. On the other hand, some prefer more space.
Discourse markers: opinions and changing topic
Generally speaking and on the whole make a general statement. To be honest shows a personal opinion. As far as I know shows that you are not sure. By the way adds a side topic, and anyway returns to the main topic or ends it.
Generally speaking, cities are closer. To be honest, I dislike crowds. As far as I know, it depends on the region. By the way,... Anyway, let's continue.
Block 8 review
Use the grammar from this block.
reported statements and reporting verbs (L36) · reported questions and commands (L37) · modals of obligation (L38)
Common mistakes: put discourse markers in the right place, and use a comma after them. ✗ Actually but I don't agree → Actually, I don't agree. ✗ In the other hand → On the other hand. ✗ By the way, however → choose one marker for one idea.
Choose the right form
- , people in my city stand quite close.
- , it depends on the person.
- , some people prefer more space.
- , people in cities stand closer.
- , I don't like crowded lifts.
- , did you know people bow in Japan?
- , let's go back to the topic.
- , this depends on the region.
Fix the mistake
Each sentence has one mistake. Type the correct words.
- In the other hand, some people prefer more space. →
- General speaking, people stand closer in cities. →
- Actually but I don't agree. →
- To the honest, I dislike crowded lifts. →
- At the way, did you know that people bow? →
- As far I know, this depends on the region. →
Talk about it
Answer in detail. Use discourse markers: actually, in fact, on the other hand, generally speaking, to be honest, anyway, by the way.
- Generally speaking, how close do people stand in your country?
- To be honest, what do you find awkward in other cultures?
- What custom from your country would surprise a visitor? Actually, is it unusual?
- On the other hand, what customs do you like in other countries?
- By the way, what gesture means something different in different countries?
- As far as you know, how do people in your region greet each other?
Three views on personal space and a short talk
8 minThree views on personal space
Three people talk about personal space. Compare their views. Who is the most careful with generalisations? Who has had an awkward moment? What is normal in your culture?
Prof Hall-Brown, 55
- Studies culture
- Warns about generalisations
- Says that individuals differ
- Explains personal zones
Keiko, 30
- Is from Japan
- Bows when she meets people
- Says a handshake felt awkward at first
- Now enjoys both
Carlos, 41
- Is from Argentina
- Greets friends with a kiss
- Stands close when talking
- Says space is not rude, just different
Mini-talk: customs and differences
Your teacher will time you.
- Plan for one minute, then speak for one or two minutes.
- Part 1: describe a custom in your country and use two markers (generally speaking, in fact).
- Part 2: compare it with another culture (on the other hand, however).
- Part 3: give your opinion, and change the topic with by the way and anyway.
Personal questions
10 minPart I: Me
- How do you greet your friends?
- What gestures do you use a lot?
- Do you like to stand close to people?
- What is polite in your country?
- What do you find awkward?
- Have you ever offended someone by mistake?
- Do you make eye contact when you talk?
- What would you tell a visitor about your customs?
Part II: Other people
- Who in your family likes hugging?
- Who stands too close to you?
- Who taught you manners?
- Who do you greet with a handshake?
- Who is the most polite person you know?
- Who has taught you about a different culture?
Part III: A bit deeper
- Are cultural differences getting smaller?
- Is it wrong to talk about "national characters"?
- Should visitors follow local customs?
- Is a handshake still necessary?
- Should schools teach etiquette?
Roleplay
12 minExplaining a custom
Guide
A visitor (your teacher) asks about a custom in your country:- explain the custom
- say how it differs from other places
- give your opinion
- warn about generalisations
Visitor
Says things like:- What is the custom?
- Is it the same everywhere?
- What should I do?
- What if I make a mistake?
An awkward moment
Speaker
A friend (your teacher) asks about an awkward moment abroad:- say what happened
- say how you felt
- say what you learned
- give your opinion
Friend
Says things like:- Where were you?
- What happened?
- Were you embarrassed?
- What did you learn?
Homework
at homeYour homework score
Do all four exercises, then press Check all homework. Correct answers will appear next to your mistakes.
Complete with a word
- The area around you that you want to keep free from others is your .
- A movement of the hands or head that has a meaning is called a .
- Saying hello, with words or a movement, is a .
- In business, the is a common way to say hello.
- When you don't know what to do or say, a situation can feel .
- It is to say please and thank you.
- Looking directly into someone's eyes is called .
- Saying that all people from a place are the same is a .
Choose the correct form
- , people are friendly.
- , I don't like crowds.
- , it can be useful.
- , I live in the capital.
- , have you seen him?
- , let's continue.
- , it is cheaper than I thought.
- , he has left.
Correct or incorrect?
Decide if each sentence is grammatically correct.
- Generally speaking, people in cities stand closer.
- General speaking, people in cities stand closer.
- On the other hand, some people prefer more space.
- In the other hand, some people prefer more space.
- To be honest, I don't like crowded lifts.
- Actually but I don't agree.
- By the way, did you know that people bow in Japan?
Match the two halves
- Actually,
- In fact,
- On the other hand,
- Generally speaking,
- To be honest,
- By the way,
- As far as I know,
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