Speaking Boost · B1 · Lesson 28 of 50
Speaking Boost B1 · Block 6: Travel and Culture

What happens when you move to a new country?

From the "honeymoon" to reverse culture shock: learn the four stages people go through abroad, compare etiquette around the world, see Ukraine through foreign eyes, and help a new colleague settle in.

1

Warm-up

5 min
1.1

Cultures

Answer and give a real example for each one.

  1. Have you ever been surprised by a custom in another country?
  2. What surprises foreigners most about Ukraine?
  3. Have you ever felt homesick?
  4. Which country's culture is most different from yours, in your opinion?
  5. Would you like to live abroad? Where?
  6. What do you miss most when you are away from home?
2

Words and phrases

10 min
2.1

New words

For each word or phrase, say one true sentence about cultures you know.

2.2

Which word?

Choose the word or phrase that fits.

  1. When I moved to Tokyo, I had a big .
  2. Before you visit, learn about the local .
  3. In Japan, business card is very important.
  4. It took us a year to .
  5. In my first months abroad, I was really .
  6. Children usually to new schools quickly.
  7. He works in Berlin. He's part of the community there.
  8. The British love about the weather.
2.3

Opposites and meanings

Choose the right answer, then press Check answers.

  1. polite ↔
  2. always on time =
  3. to feel accepted = to
  4. to give extra money for service = to
  5. to not value something = to take it for
  6. feeling strange back home = reverse culture
2.4

Useful phrases

Use each phrase to talk about differences between cultures.

  • In my country, it's normal to...У моїй країні нормально...In my country, it's normal to take your shoes off at home.
  • In..., people tend to...У ..., люди зазвичай...In Spain, people tend to have dinner very late.
  • It's considered rude to...Вважається неввічливим...In Japan, it's considered rude to blow your nose in public.
  • What surprised me most was...Найбільше мене здивувало...What surprised me most was how quiet the trains were.
  • I'm not used to...Я не звик(-ла)...I'm not used to eating dinner at 10 p.m.
  • It took me a while to get used to...Мені знадобився час, щоб звикнути до...It took me a while to get used to driving on the left.
  • I didn't realise that...Я не усвідомлював(-ла), що...I didn't realise that tipping was so important there.
  • When in Rome, do as the Romans do.У чужий монастир зі своїм статутом не ходять.I don't like it, but when in Rome, do as the Romans do.
3

Read and react

8 min
3.1

The four stages

Read the article. Hover over the dotted words for help.

What happens when you move to a new country?

The term "culture shock" was made popular in the 1950s by the Canadian-Finnish anthropologist Kalervo Oberg. He described the anxiety people feel when they lose all the familiar signs of everyday life: how to greet people, when to tip, how to buy a ticket, what a smile means.

Many researchers describe culture shock in four stages. First comes the "honeymoon": everything is new and exciting, the food is delicious and the people are fascinating. Then comes frustration: the language is tiring, the bureaucracy is impossible, and you miss home. Small things, like not finding your favourite bread, can make you angry or sad.

Slowly, the third stage begins: adjustment. You learn the rules, make friends and develop routines. Finally, there's adaptation: you feel comfortable, and the new culture becomes a second home. Of course, not everyone goes through the stages in the same way or at the same speed.

There is also a surprise at the end. When people return home after living abroad, many experience "reverse culture shock". Home has changed, and so have they. Old friends may not understand their experiences, and things they used to take for granted suddenly seem strange.

Experts advise newcomers to learn some of the language, keep an open mind, find both locals and people from home to talk to, and be patient: it usually gets better.

3.2

True or false?

  1. Kalervo Oberg made the term "culture shock" popular.
  2. The first stage is usually frustration.
  3. Small things can make people angry or sad in the second stage.
  4. Everyone goes through the stages at the same speed.
  5. People can feel culture shock when they come back home.
3.3

What do you think?

  1. Have you experienced any of these stages, even on a long trip?
  2. What would be hardest for you if you moved abroad?
  3. What do you think foreigners find hardest in Ukraine?
  4. Do you know someone who had reverse culture shock?
4

Grammar for speaking

10 min
4.1

Grammar for speaking

used to + verb

Past habits that are not true now (Lesson 3).

I used to live in Kyiv. (I don't now.)

be used to + noun / -ing

Something is normal and familiar for you.

I'm used to the cold. She's used to driving on the left.

get used to + noun / -ing

The process of it becoming normal.

I'm getting used to eating late. It took me a year to get used to the food.

After be / get used to, the to is a preposition, so use -ing: I'm used to working late. ✗ I'm used to work late. Questions and negatives: Are you used to...? I'm not used to... I couldn't get used to...

4.2

Choose the right form

  1. I
    live in a small village, but now I live in Lviv.
  2. I'm not used
    up so early.
  3. It took me months to
    the cold weather.
  4. She
    working with people from different cultures.
  5. Are you
    the noise yet?
  6. I'll never
    eating dinner at 10 p.m.!
  7. We
    travel abroad much.
  8. He's
    the local customs.
4.3

Fix the mistake

Each sentence has one mistake. Type the correct words.

  1. I'm used to work at night. →
  2. I am use to the weather now. →
  3. It took me a year to used to the food. →
  4. She is used to live alone. →
  5. Did you used to live abroad? →
  6. I can't get used to drive on the left. →
4.4

Talk about it

Answer in detail. Use used to, be used to and get used to.

  1. What did you have to get used to when you started your current job or moved home?
  2. What would be the hardest thing for you to get used to in another country?
  3. What are you so used to in Ukraine that you would miss abroad?
  4. What did you use to do as a child that people don't do any more?
  5. What customs would a foreigner need to get used to in your home?
  6. What have you never been able to get used to, even after years?
5

Etiquette around the world

8 min
5.1

What would you do?

For each situation, say what you think is polite and what is rude. What would you find hard to get used to?

Situation 1

Dinner in Japan

  • You're invited to a Japanese home
  • Where do you put your shoes?
  • Is it OK to slurp noodles?
  • Do you leave a tip at a restaurant?
Situation 2

Meeting in Germany

  • A business meeting at 9:00
  • What time do you arrive?
  • Do you use first names?
  • Do you start with small talk?
Situation 3

Visiting Ukraine

  • A foreign friend visits your family
  • What should they bring as a gift?
  • Should they take off their shoes?
  • What will surprise them at the table?
  • What should they never do?
5.2

Ukraine through foreign eyes

Give examples and explain.

  1. What do you think surprises foreigners most in Ukraine?
  2. Which Ukrainian customs do you love and would like the world to know?
  3. Which stereotypes about Ukrainians are wrong?
  4. What advice would you give a foreigner moving to your city?
6

Personal questions

10 min
6.1

Part I: Me

  1. Which foreign custom would you like to bring to Ukraine?
  2. Have you ever made a cultural mistake abroad?
  3. Do you take your shoes off when you visit people?
  4. How do you greet friends: hug, kiss, handshake?
  5. Are you punctual? Is it important in your culture?
  6. Do you enjoy small talk?
  7. What would you miss most if you lived abroad?
  8. What do you take for granted at home?
6.2

Part II: Other people

  1. How has life changed for Ukrainians who have moved abroad?
  2. Is it easier for young or older people to adapt to a new country?
  3. Should immigrants keep their own customs or adopt new ones?
  4. What can companies do to help foreign workers settle in?
  5. Are stereotypes about nations ever useful?
  6. What surprised you most about a foreigner you met?
6.3

Part III: Thinking deeper

  1. Is "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" always right?
  2. Will cultures become more similar because of the internet?
  3. Can you ever fully belong in a new country?
  4. Is it possible to have two homes?
  5. Should tourists learn the local language?
  6. What can culture shock teach us about ourselves?
7

Roleplay

10 min
7.1

The welcome guide

You

Local guide

A foreign colleague (your teacher) has just moved to your city for work. Help them settle in:
  • explain three customs they'll need to get used to
  • give advice about shops, transport and paperwork
  • explain what is considered polite and rude
  • recommend places where they can meet people and fit in
Speak for at least 3 minutes in total. Use be used to / get used to and It's considered rude to...
Your teacher

Foreign colleague

Asks short questions, for example:
  1. Why do people take their shoes off?
  2. Do I need to tip?
  3. Is it OK to call my boss by her first name?
  4. Where can I find people who speak English?
7.2

Coming home

You

Returning expat

You have lived abroad for five years (real or imagined) and have just come back home. A friend asks how it feels:
  • what you got used to abroad
  • what feels strange now that you're back
  • what you missed about home and what you'll miss about abroad
  • whether you feel at home again
You do most of the talking. Use: I used to... · I got so used to... that... · I'm not used to... any more · It took me a while to...
Your teacher

Old friend

Asks short questions, for example:
  1. Do you feel different?
  2. What was the hardest part?
  3. Are you happy to be back?
  4. Would you go again?
8

Debate

7 min
8.1

Agree or disagree?

"Immigrants should fully adopt the customs of their new country."

Ideas for

It helps them fit in, find jobs and make friends. It shows respect for the new country. Society works better when people share rules.

Ideas against

People have the right to keep their culture and language. Different cultures make a country richer. You can respect local rules and still keep your own traditions.

Round 1: give your real opinion for 1–2 minutes. Round 2: defend the opposite side for 1 minute. Use: When in Rome... · It's considered... · People need time to get used to... · In my experience...

9

Homework

at home

Your homework score

Do all four exercises, then press Check all homework. Correct answers will appear next to your mistakes.

– / 30
H1

Complete with a word

culture shockcustomshomesicksettle infit inexpatpunctualsmall talk
  1. When I first went to India, I had a huge .
  2. It's important to respect local .
  3. She felt and called her mum every day.
  4. It took them a few months to .
  5. He tried hard to with his new classmates.
  6. There are many families in our district.
  7. In Germany, people are usually very .
  8. I'm not good at . I prefer deep conversations.
H2

used to, be used to, get used to

  1. I smoke, but I stopped.
  2. I'm used alone now.
  3. It took me a long time to the food.
  4. She cold winters. She's from Finland.
  5. Are you working at night?
  6. I'll never the traffic here.
  7. We have a car.
  8. He's the new job.
H3

Correct or incorrect?

Decide if each sentence is grammatically correct.

  1. I'm used to working long hours.
  2. I'm used to work long hours.
  3. It took me a year to get used to the climate.
  4. Did you used to live in Kharkiv?
  5. She's getting used to her new school.
  6. I am use to the noise.
  7. In Japan, it's considered rude to tip.
H4

Match the two halves

  1. In my country, it's normal to
  2. In Spain, people tend to
  3. It's considered rude to
  4. What surprised me most was
  5. It took me a while to get used to
  6. I didn't realise that
  7. When in Rome,

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