Speaking Boost · B1 · Lesson 7 of 50
Speaking Boost B1 · Block 2: Relationships

Is the traditional family disappearing?

Families today look very different from 50 years ago. Talk about your own family, compare family life then and now, and explain your family rules on a TV family-swap show.

1

Warm-up

5 min
1.1

My family

Answer and give a real example for each one.

  1. How many people are there in your family? Who are you closest to?
  2. Who do you take after: your mum or your dad? How?
  3. What family traditions do you have?
  4. Who did most of the household chores when you were a child?
  5. How often does your extended family get together?
  6. What is the best thing about your family?
2

Words and phrases

10 min
2.1

New words

For each word or phrase, say one true sentence about your family or a family you know.

2.2

Which word?

Choose the word or phrase that fits.

  1. Cousins, aunts, uncles — my whole came to my birthday.
  2. I was by my grandparents in a village.
  3. Everyone says I my mum. We have the same laugh.
  4. Who will your cat while you're on holiday?
  5. My father was the only ; my mum stayed at home.
  6. Cleaning and cooking are the I hate most.
  7. I have three : two brothers and a sister.
  8. My parents had a lot of rules. They were very .
2.3

Phrasal verbs and meanings

Choose the right answer, then press Check answers.

  1. to take care of someone = to
  2. to look like a parent = to
  3. to raise a child = to
  4. your partner's parents =
  5. give a child everything = to
  6. very close and supportive =
2.4

Useful phrases

Use each phrase to talk about your family.

  • Families are much ... than they used to be.Сім'ї набагато ..., ніж були раніше.Families are much smaller than they used to be.
  • Compared to my parents, I...Порівняно з батьками, я...Compared to my parents, I'm far less strict.
  • In my family, it was normal to...У нашій родині було нормально...In my family, it was normal to have lunch at grandma's every Sunday.
  • I was brought up to believe that...Мене виховали з переконанням, що...I was brought up to believe that family comes first.
  • We're not as ... as we used to be.Ми вже не такі ..., як раніше.We're not as close as we used to be.
  • The older I get, the more...Чим старшим я стаю, тим більше...The older I get, the more I understand my mum.
  • It's quite common these days to...Сьогодні доволі поширено...It's quite common these days to get married after 30.
  • When I have my own family, I'll...Коли в мене буде своя сім'я, я...When I have my own family, I'll cook with my kids every weekend.
3

Read and react

8 min
3.1

The changing family

Read the article. Hover over the dotted words for help.

Is the traditional family disappearing?

Think of a typical family photo from 1970: a married couple in their twenties, two or three children, and maybe grandparents living nearby. Now think of a family photo from today. It may look very different.

Across Europe, people are getting married later than their parents did, or not getting married at all. They have fewer children and have them later. More people live alone than ever before, and in many big cities single-person homes are now one of the most common types of household.

Family roles have changed too. In the past, the father was usually the breadwinner and the mother looked after the home. Today, in most families, both parents work, and more fathers take parental leave or become stay-at-home dads. Household chores are shared more equally, although research shows women still do more of them.

But not everything is moving in one direction. Because housing is so expensive, more young adults live with their parents for longer, and in some countries three generations living together is becoming popular again. Grandparents often help to raise the children while parents work.

So is the traditional family disappearing? Maybe the better answer is that the family is not dying, it's changing shape. And, as always, every family is different.

3.2

True or false?

  1. People in Europe are getting married earlier than before.
  2. More people live alone than ever before.
  3. Today women and men do exactly the same amount of household chores.
  4. Expensive housing makes some young adults stay with their parents longer.
  5. The article says the family is dying.
3.3

What do you think?

  1. How is your family different from your grandparents' family?
  2. Is it the same in Ukraine as in the article? What is different?
  3. Would you like to live with three generations under one roof? Why?
  4. How should parents share household chores?
4

Grammar for speaking

10 min
4.1

Grammar for speaking

much / far / a lot + comparative

For big differences.

Families are much smaller now. Life is far more expensive.

a bit / slightly + comparative

For small differences.

My brother is a bit taller than me.

(not) as ... as

The same / not the same.

I'm not as strict as my mother was.

Also: the + comparative, the + comparative for two things that change together: The older I get, the more I look like my dad. And used to (Lesson 3): We used to have dinner together every evening.

4.2

Choose the right form

  1. Families today are
    than in the past.
  2. My sister is
    me.
  3. My dad is
    than my mum.
  4. I get, the wiser I become.
  5. Life is
    now that my kids are older.
  6. My brother isn't
    my sister.
  7. The more you practise,
    your English gets.
  8. We
    visit my grandparents every summer.
4.3

Fix the mistake

Each sentence has one mistake. Type the correct words.

  1. My brother is more older than me. →
  2. She is as tall than her mum. →
  3. Families are much more big now. →
  4. The more I sleep, the most tired I feel. →
  5. My parents were more strict that yours. →
  6. He isn't as patient like his father. →
4.4

Talk about it

Answer in detail. Use comparatives, (not) as ... as and the more ..., the more.

  1. Compare your childhood with your children's or nieces' and nephews' childhood today.
  2. Compare your parents' style of bringing up children with the style of parents today.
  3. Who in your family are you most similar to, and who are you least like?
  4. Which family member has changed the most over the years? How?
  5. Complete and explain: "The older I get, the more..."
  6. Compare family life in a big city and in a village.
5

Family roles: then and now

8 min
5.1

Who did what?

Compare family roles in the 1980s and today. Then talk about your own family. Use comparatives and used to.

1980s

A typical family

  • Who earned the money?
  • Who cooked and cleaned?
  • Who helped with homework?
  • Who made big decisions?
Today

A typical family

  • Who earns the money?
  • Who cooks and cleans?
  • Who takes the kids to school?
  • Who makes big decisions?
Your family

Then and now

  • How was it in your parents' home?
  • How is it in your home now?
  • What would you like to change?
  • What should never change?
5.2

Family rules

Answer and explain. Compare with how things used to be.

  1. What was the strictest rule in your home when you were a child?
  2. Which family rule do you think is the most important?
  3. Should children do household chores? From what age?
  4. Should grandparents spoil their grandchildren?
  5. How much screen time should children have?
6

Personal questions

10 min
6.1

Part I: Me

  1. Are you an only child, or do you have siblings? How did it affect you?
  2. What did your parents do that you will (or did) do differently?
  3. What is the best advice your parents gave you?
  4. Which family tradition would you like to keep forever?
  5. How do you get on with your in-laws (or how would you like to)?
  6. Who looked after you most when you were small?
  7. Were your parents strict? Was it good for you?
  8. What do you argue about in your family?
6.2

Part II: Other people

  1. Who has the most influence in families today: parents, school or the internet?
  2. Is it better to be the oldest, the middle or the youngest child?
  3. Should parents be friends with their children?
  4. At what age should young people move out?
  5. Do grandparents play a bigger role in Ukraine than in other countries?
  6. Is it a good idea to work in a family business?
6.3

Part III: Thinking deeper

  1. Is the family still the most important part of society?
  2. Should the government pay parents to stay at home with small children?
  3. Are smaller families happier?
  4. Can a family be just two friends or a person and a pet?
  5. Will robots help to raise children in the future?
  6. Is the generation gap bigger today than before?
7

Roleplay

10 min
7.1

The family historian

You

Family historian

A young relative is making a family tree for a school project and wants to hear the family story from you. Tell them:
  • where your family comes from and how your grandparents or parents met
  • what life used to be like for them compared to now
  • a funny or surprising family story
  • what you think the family will be like in 30 years
Speak for at least 3 minutes in total. Use comparatives and used to.
Your teacher

Curious young relative

Asks short questions, for example:
  1. Was life harder back then?
  2. Who was the strictest?
  3. Who do I take after?
  4. What was your favourite family holiday?
7.2

The family swap

You

Parent in a TV show

You are on a TV show where two families swap homes for a week. Explain to the other parent how your home works:
  • the daily routine and who does which household chores
  • your family rules (screen time, bedtime, food)
  • what makes your family special
  • what you think will be hardest for them
You do most of the talking. Use: In our family, ... · We're much more ... than most families. · The most important rule is... · Don't be surprised if...
Your teacher

The other parent

Is surprised and asks short questions, for example:
  1. Really? The kids do that?
  2. Isn't that a bit too strict?
  3. Who cooks on Sundays?
  4. What happens if someone breaks the rules?
8

Debate

7 min
8.1

Agree or disagree?

"Adult children shouldn't live with their parents."

Ideas for

Living alone teaches independence and responsibility. Parents need their own life too. Young people grow up faster when they pay their own bills.

Ideas against

Housing is very expensive. Living together saves money and helps both sides. In many cultures, three generations living together is normal and makes families closer.

Round 1: give your real opinion for 1–2 minutes. Round 2: defend the opposite side for 1 minute. Use: Compared to... · It's far better to... · That's not as simple as it sounds. · In my culture...

9

Homework

at home

Your homework score

Do all four exercises, then press Check all homework. Correct answers will appear next to your mistakes.

– / 30
H1

Complete with a word

brought uptake afterlook afterbreadwinnerchoresonly childin-lawsclose-knit
  1. I was by my aunt.
  2. I my dad. We both love football.
  3. Can you the baby for an hour?
  4. My mum was the main in our family.
  5. Washing the dishes is my least favourite of all the .
  6. As an , I never had to share my toys.
  7. My visit us every Sunday.
  8. We're a very family. We talk every day.
H2

Choose the correct comparative

  1. Life is now.
  2. My son is me.
  3. The more you read, you learn.
  4. My sister is than me.
  5. I'm not my father.
  6. Families are today.
  7. My grandma bake bread every day.
  8. This year has been than last year.
H3

Correct or incorrect?

Decide if each sentence is grammatically correct.

  1. My brother is more taller than me.
  2. She isn't as patient as her mother.
  3. The older I get, the happier I am.
  4. Families are much smaller now.
  5. He is far more lazy than his brother.
  6. My dad is more strict that my mum.
  7. Life is a bit easier now.
H4

Match the two halves

  1. Families are much smaller
  2. Compared to my parents,
  3. I was brought up to believe that
  4. We're not as close
  5. The older I get,
  6. It's quite common these days
  7. When I have my own family,

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