Warm-up
5 minSmall wins
Answer and give a real example for each one.
- What is one thing you did this week that you're proud of?
- What is the best compliment you have ever received?
- Do you prefer to set big goals or small goals?
- Who is the most successful person you know personally? Why do you think so?
- Have you ever achieved something that nobody expected you to?
- Do you celebrate your successes? How?
Words and phrases
10 minWords for success and failure
For each word, say one true sentence about your life or someone you know.
Which word?
Choose the word that fits.
- Running my first marathon at 45 was a real
- After years of hard work, the scientist finally made an important
- She was afraid of public speaking, but she managed to her fear.
- I don't have talent for music, but I have
- My first restaurant closed after three months. It was a complete
- My parents were really me when I graduated.
- He worked hard for years without any thanks. Now, finally, he is getting
- I always give myself a small after a difficult week.
Word partners
Choose the word that goes together, then press Check answers.
- to a goal
- to a goal
- to make an
- to it a try
- to be proud something
- to a breakthrough
Phrases to talk about achievements
Use each phrase to tell a true story about something you have achieved.
- One of my biggest achievements is...Одне з моїх найбільших досягнень — це...One of my biggest achievements is learning to drive at 40.
- I'm really proud of the fact that...Я справді пишаюся тим, що...I'm really proud of the fact that I never gave up.
- It wasn't easy, but I managed to...Було нелегко, але мені вдалося...It wasn't easy, but I managed to finish my degree.
- The hardest part was...Найважчим було...The hardest part was staying motivated.
- I've always wanted to...Я завжди хотів(-ла)...I've always wanted to run a half marathon.
- I haven't... yet, but I'm working on it.Я ще не..., але працюю над цим.I haven't reached B2 yet, but I'm working on it.
- Looking back, I learnt that...Озираючись назад, я зрозумів(-ла), що...Looking back, I learnt that failure is part of success.
- It was worth it because...Воно було того варте, бо...It was worth it because now I have my dream job.
Read and react
8 minThe arrival fallacy
Read the article. Hover over the dotted words for help.
Why reaching your goal can feel empty
You work for years to get a promotion, buy a flat or run a marathon. You imagine how happy you will be when you finally get there. Then the day comes, and... you feel good for a week. After that, life feels almost exactly the same.
The psychologist Tal Ben-Shahar, who taught a famous course on happiness at Harvard, calls this the "arrival fallacy": the false belief that reaching a goal will make us happy for a long time. He experienced it himself. As a young man he became a national squash champion, but the happiness lasted only a few hours.
Why does this happen? One reason is that we get used to good things very quickly. Another is that while we are working towards a goal, our brain is already "paying" us with small doses of happiness and anticipation. When we arrive, those small rewards stop.
Does this mean goals are useless? Not at all. Goals give our days direction and meaning. But researchers suggest enjoying the journey itself, celebrating small steps along the way, and setting a new goal before you reach the old one.
In other words: the climb matters more than the top of the mountain.
True or false?
- Reaching a big goal usually makes people happy for many years.
- Tal Ben-Shahar experienced the arrival fallacy himself.
- We get used to good things slowly.
- The article says goals are a waste of time.
- It is a good idea to celebrate small steps.
What do you think?
- Have you ever felt "empty" after reaching a goal? What happened?
- Which do you enjoy more: the process or the result?
- What small steps could you celebrate in your English learning?
- Do you agree that "the climb matters more than the top"?
Grammar for speaking
10 minExperience vs finished past
Present Perfect
Life experience (no exact time) and results now. With ever, never, already, yet, just, for, since.
I've run two marathons. I've just finished my course.
Past Simple
A finished action at a specific time. With yesterday, in 2019, last year, when I was...
I ran my first marathon in 2021.
The typical pattern
Start with Present Perfect, then give details in Past Simple.
Have you ever won anything? — Yes, I have. I won a poetry contest at school.
for + a period (for five years), since + a starting point (since 2020). I've worked here since 2020. ✗ I work here since 2020.
Choose the right form
- I 15 countries so far.
- She her driving test last Monday.
- a competition?
- I my best friend since 2010.
- We the project yet.
- When learning English?
- He's got a promotion! Let's celebrate.
- They in Lviv for ten years and they still love it.
Fix the mistake
Each sentence has one mistake. Type the correct verb form.
- I have finished university in 2015. →
- Did you ever been to Japan? →
- She works here since 2019. →
- I didn't finish my report yet. →
- He has won the prize last year. →
- We know each other for ten years. →
Talk about it
Answer in detail. Start with Present Perfect, then give details in Past Simple.
- What is the most difficult thing you've ever done? When did you do it, and how did you feel?
- What have you achieved this year that you didn't expect?
- What have you always wanted to do but haven't done yet? What's stopping you?
- Have you ever failed at something and then succeeded later? Tell the story.
- How long have you been learning English? What has been your biggest breakthrough?
- What skills have you learnt since you started your current job?
A CV of failures
7 minA CV of failures
Read the real story. Then "write" your own CV of failures out loud: talk about at least three failures and what each one taught you.
The professor's CV
- A Princeton professor published a "CV of failures" online
- It listed jobs he didn't get, prizes he didn't win, papers that were rejected
- It became more famous than his real work
- His message: we only see other people's successes
Things I failed
- An exam or test
- A job or project
- A relationship or friendship
- A hobby I gave up
What I learnt
- What happened next
- What I would do differently
- How it helped me later
- Am I glad it happened?
Useful language: I've failed... more times than I can count. · The first time I tried..., I... · It was hard, but it taught me... · If it hadn't happened, I wouldn't...
Have you ever...?
Answer with Present Perfect, then add details in Past Simple. Then ask your teacher one of the questions.
- ...won anything? What and when?
- ...done something brave that scared you?
- ...learnt a skill completely on your own?
- ...helped someone achieve their goal?
- ...given up on a goal and been glad about it?
- ...surprised yourself?
Personal questions
10 minPart I: Me
- What is the achievement you are most proud of?
- What goals have you set for this year?
- Who has helped you most in reaching your goals?
- How do you stay motivated when things get hard?
- What is the biggest risk you've ever taken?
- Have you ever given up too early? What happened?
- How do you reward yourself after a success?
- What would you like to have achieved by the age of 60?
Part II: Other people
- Whose success story inspires you? Why?
- Do your parents measure success in the same way as you do?
- Should people talk about their achievements, or is it better to be modest?
- Who deserves more recognition than they get?
- How do you feel when a friend is more successful than you?
- Which famous person failed many times before succeeding?
Part III: Thinking deeper
- What does success mean to you: money, freedom, family, something else?
- Is it possible to be successful and unhappy?
- Should schools teach children how to fail?
- Is talent or hard work more important for success?
- Does social media make us feel less successful?
- Should prizes be given for effort or only for results?
Roleplay
10 minThe award ceremony
Award winner
You have just won an award for something you really did (at work, in your studies, in sport, as a parent). First give a 1-minute acceptance speech, then answer the journalist's questions:- what you achieved and how long it took
- the hardest moment and how you overcame it
- who you want to thank and why
- what your next goal is
Journalist
Asks short questions, for example:- How do you feel right now?
- When did you first decide to do this?
- Have you ever wanted to give up?
- What advice would you give to others?
The mentor
Mentor
A young person wants to give up on their dream after one failure. Convince them to keep going:- ask what happened and how they feel
- tell a true story about a time you failed and what happened next
- give three practical steps for trying again
Young person
Chooses one situation:- "I failed my university entrance exam."
- "My small online shop got zero orders."
- "I didn't get into the team."
- "My first YouTube video got 12 views."
Debate
7 minAgree or disagree?
"Hard work is more important than talent."
Ideas for
Many talented people never achieve anything because they are lazy. Persistence beats talent. Skills can be learnt with practice.Ideas against
Some people are simply born with special abilities. You can't become an Olympic champion or a genius just by working hard. Talent decides where you start.Round 1: give your real opinion for 1–2 minutes. Round 2: defend the opposite side for 1 minute. Use: From my own experience... · Take ..., for example. · I'd go even further and say... · That may be true, but...
Homework
at homeYour homework score
Do all four exercises, then press Check all homework. Correct answers will appear next to your mistakes.
Complete with a word
- Getting into medical school was a huge for me.
- Don't worry about one . Everyone makes mistakes.
- I'm so of you!
- She needed a lot of to finish the book in two years.
- He managed to his fear of water and learnt to swim.
- A big pizza is my for a hard week.
- After months of practice, I finally had a and started to understand films.
- If you make an every day, you'll see results.
Present Perfect or Past Simple?
- I that film last weekend.
- She to London.
- your homework yet?
- We in 2018 at a conference.
- He here since January.
- I some great news!
- When to Uzhhorod?
- They yet.
Correct or incorrect?
Decide if each sentence is grammatically correct.
- I have been to Italy three times.
- She has finished school in 2010.
- Have you ever met a famous person?
- I know him since we were kids.
- He hasn't called me yet.
- When have you started your job?
- We've lived here for five years.
Match the two halves
- One of my biggest achievements is
- It wasn't easy, but I managed to
- The hardest part was
- I've always wanted to
- I haven't reached my goal yet,
- Looking back, I learnt that
- It was worth it because
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