Warm-up
5 minBack in the day
Answer and give real details from your life.
- What were you like at 15? Describe yourself in three words.
- What did you use to worry about as a teenager? Do you still worry about it?
- What was the most important thing in your life ten years ago? What is it now?
- Which song, smell or place makes you feel nostalgic?
- What would your 18-year-old self think about your life today?
- What is one thing that hasn't changed about you at all?
Words and phrases
10 minWords for life changes
For each word, say one true sentence about your life or someone you know.
Which word?
Choose the word or phrase that fits.
- Getting my first job abroad was the moment everything changed. It was
- After years of travelling, he wants to buy a house and
- Looking at old school photos always makes me feel
- Children so fast these days!
- I want to yoga this autumn.
- She's only 14, but she thinks and acts like an adult. She's very
- As a student I had no job, no bills and no stress. I was totally
- When I had kids, my changed completely.
Phrasal verbs
Choose the phrasal verb with the same meaning, then press Check answers.
- I started playing tennis last year. = I tennis.
- I stopped smoking. = I smoking.
- I left my parents' home. = I .
- I spent my childhood in Odesa. = I in Odesa.
- I'm now comfortable with the cold weather. = I've it.
- When I think about the past... = When I ...
Phrases for talking about change
Use each phrase to say something true about how your life has changed.
- I used to..., but now...Раніше я..., а тепер...I used to hate vegetables, but now I'm almost vegetarian.
- I didn't use to..., but these days...Раніше я не..., а зараз...I didn't use to cook, but these days I cook every evening.
- I no longer...Я більше не...I no longer worry about what people think.
- I'm still...Я досі...I'm still as stubborn as I was at school.
- Back then, ...Тоді, у ті часи, ...Back then, we didn't have smartphones.
- Looking back, I think...Озираючись назад, я думаю...Looking back, I think I was too serious.
- The biggest change has been...Найбільшою зміною стало...The biggest change has been becoming a parent.
- If I could tell my younger self one thing, it would be...Якби я міг (могла) сказати собі молодшому одну річ, це було б......it would be: relax, everything will be fine.
Read and react
8 minThe end of history illusion
Read the article. Hover over the dotted words for help.
Why we think we've finished changing
Ask anyone how much they have changed in the last ten years and they will probably say: a lot. Their music, their friends, their values and their dreams are all different now. But ask the same people how much they will change in the next ten years, and most of them say: not much.
Psychologists at Harvard tested this with more than 19,000 people aged 18 to 68. People of every age agreed that they had changed a lot in the past. But they all believed that their future self would be quite similar to the person they are today. The researchers called this the "end of history illusion": we think that the person we are now is the final version.
Of course, this is not true. When the researchers compared, for example, what 30-year-olds expected with what 40-year-olds remembered, the real changes were much bigger than people predicted.
This illusion has a cost. People pay a lot today for things their future self may not want, like an expensive tattoo of a band they will stop listening to, or a career plan for a person they will no longer be.
So next time you feel sure about who you are, remember: the person you will be in ten years might surprise you as much as your teenage self would be surprised by you now.
True or false?
- Most people believe they have changed a lot in the past.
- Only young people took part in the research.
- People expected to change a lot in the future.
- In reality, people change more than they expect.
- The article says tattoos are always a bad idea.
What do you think?
- Do you recognise the "end of history illusion" in yourself?
- What decision did you make in the past that your present self wouldn't make?
- What do you think will be different about you in ten years?
- Is it better to plan your life or to stay flexible? Why?
Grammar for speaking
10 minTalking about the past and now
used to + verb
Past habits and states that are not true now.
I used to live with my parents. I used to be very shy.
didn't use to / Did you use to...?
Negatives and questions (no -d!).
I didn't use to like coffee. Did you use to play sport?
would + verb
Repeated past actions (not states!). Good for stories.
Every summer we would go to the sea.
Careful: used to do (past habit) is different from be / get used to doing (be familiar with). I used to work at night (not now). I'm used to working at night (it's normal for me). For now, use not any more / no longer / still.
Choose the right form
- I have very long hair.
- Did you go to a music school?
- We have a dog called Rex.
- Every Sunday my grandma bake a big cake.
- I like reading.
- I'm getting up early now.
- She in Kharkiv. She moved to Vienna.
- He's my best friend after 20 years.
Fix the mistake
Each sentence has one mistake. Type the correct words.
- I use to play the piano when I was a kid. →
- Did you used to like school? →
- I would have a red bike when I was ten. →
- She doesn't smoke no more. →
- I am used to work long hours. →
- He didn't used to be so serious. →
Talk about it
Answer in detail. Use used to, would, no longer, still and be used to.
- Describe a typical summer from your childhood. What would you do every day?
- What did you use to believe as a child that seems funny now?
- Which habits have you given up, and which have you taken up in the last five years?
- What did you have to get used to when you started your current job or moved to a new place?
- Who used to be very important in your life but no longer is? What happened?
- What is still the same in your life after all these years?
Time capsule
7 minTime capsule: 2016 vs 2026
Choose one capsule at a time. Compare life ten years ago and today. Then say which changes are better and which are worse.
Everyday life
- How we paid for things
- How we found our way in a new city
- How we watched films
- How we booked taxis and tickets
Work and study
- Where people worked
- How we learnt languages
- Which jobs were popular
- How often we changed jobs
You
- Where you lived and with whom
- What you did on Friday evenings
- Your biggest dream
- What you were afraid of
Useful language: Ten years ago we used to... · Nobody would... · These days we... · We've got used to... · The biggest difference is...
Letter to your younger self
- Imagine you can send a voice message to yourself at 18. Speak for two minutes.
- Tell them three things that will happen, one thing they should stop worrying about, and one piece of advice.
- Then imagine a message from yourself at 60 to you today. What would that person say?
Personal questions
10 minPart I: Me
- What was the biggest turning point in your life so far?
- When did you first feel like an adult?
- What did you use to want to be when you grew up?
- Which hobby did you use to love but no longer do?
- What is the hardest thing you've had to get used to?
- What are you more relaxed about now than in the past?
- What do you miss most about your childhood?
- Which milestone are you looking forward to next?
Part II: Other people
- How has your best friend changed since you first met?
- How are your parents different from when you were a child?
- Who in your family has changed the most? Why?
- Do people from your hometown change when they move to big cities?
- Which friend from the past would you like to meet again?
- How have your relationships with your parents changed as an adult?
Part III: Thinking deeper
- Is nostalgia useful, or does it stop us from moving forward?
- Was life really simpler in the past, or do we just remember it that way?
- Do big crises change people forever?
- At what age do people really grow up?
- Is it possible to "go back" to who you used to be?
- How do you think your generation will be remembered?
Roleplay
10 minThe school reunion
Former student
You meet an old classmate for the first time in 15 years. Tell them how your life has changed:- where you live and what you do now
- what you used to be like at school and how you've changed
- one big turning point
- what is still the same about you
Old classmate
Is curious and asks short questions, for example:- Do you still see anyone from school?
- Are you still into...?
- What made you change?
- Do you miss the old days?
- Would you go back if you could?
The documentary
Local expert
A journalist is making a documentary about how your town or city has changed in the last 20 years. You are the expert. Describe:- what the town used to look like
- what people would do in their free time
- what has changed for the better and for the worse
- what you hope it will be like in 20 years
Journalist
Asks short questions, for example:- What did the centre use to look like?
- Where would young people go at weekends?
- What do you miss?
- What would you like to change?
Debate
7 minAgree or disagree?
"Life was better before smartphones."
Ideas for
People used to talk face to face, read more and be more present. There was less stress and comparison. Children played outside.Ideas against
We can work from anywhere, call family abroad for free, and learn anything online. Smartphones save time and lives. Nostalgia makes the past look better than it was.Round 1: give your real opinion for 1–2 minutes. Round 2: defend the opposite side for 1 minute. Use: Back in the day... · Let's be honest... · Nobody can deny that... · On balance, I think...
Homework
at homeYour homework score
Do all four exercises, then press Check all homework. Correct answers will appear next to your mistakes.
Complete with a word
- I in a village near Uzhhorod.
- She painting when she retired.
- He his job to travel the world.
- Getting married is an important in life.
- Leaving home at 17 gave me very early.
- When I hear this song, I feel so .
- After ten years abroad, she wants to come home and .
- Losing my job was a — I started my own business.
used to, would, or be used to?
- I have a cat when I was a kid.
- Every evening my dad read us a story.
- I working from home now.
- Did you live in Kyiv?
- We have a car.
- She really shy at school.
- It took me months to the new time zone.
- He plays football.
Correct or incorrect?
Decide if each sentence is grammatically correct.
- I used to love cartoons.
- Did you used to have long hair?
- We would live in a small flat.
- She is used to driving on the left now.
- I am use to the noise.
- He doesn't work there any more.
- Every winter we would go skiing.
Match the two halves
- I used to be very shy,
- Back then,
- Looking back, I think
- The biggest change has been
- I no longer
- I'm still
- If I could tell my younger self one thing,
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